I am a family of five. Both my husband and I are teachers in neighboring school districts, as well as serving as volunteer Children's Pastors at our small church. In a gist, our entire lives revolve around kids. And I'd have it no other way. I know that this is an area that God has called us to be in...serving kids and families.
But I have to say that around this time of the year that school supplies seem to get a bad rap. For quite a few years, we've hosted a school supply drive at our local church for families who couldn't afford them. For a while there, my family was one who even benefited from them as my husband was between work for a summer or two. And what I'm about to say does in no way mean that I refuse to help others or donate to those in need. But I think this summer my NO button is getting a work out.
You see, I've watched a few families get help from schools or other organizations only to turn around and use the help for themselves (adults) instead of their kiddos. Now before you get all upset, I know I shouldn't base what I do on the actions of others...it's like when I see a person on the side of the road holding a sign asking for money, I have no second thoughts to donate to them (if I have it then), knowing that what they do with it is between them and God, but in the area of supplies, I don't know, just no. Plus, now that my husband and I are both school teachers, I find that in this season of the year, we spend a great deal on school supplies for our classrooms, our own students, and our own children, now that all 3 are in school. I'm not unwilling to help a family I personally know and are truly in need, I just feel compelled to not give to large supply drives since I wonder if the things actually make it into the hands that need them. And in working in Title I schools, both my husband and I have experienced the funds and things available for families in these income situations, so I don't feel bad saying no this summer.
Teachers are the only folks I know who routinely spend money on families and students that aren't part of their own family or church. And this summer when I spend, and I will, I want to know who is benefiting and see the impact it makes daily, instead of a detached gift. Maybe you don't agree, and that's ok, but that's where I am this summer. Looking forward to a new start this school year!
